One of the key activities I do after a good rain is pull the
weeds in my flowerbeds. No, this is not my favorite thing to do but it is the
best time to do it. The ground is soft and the tops of the weed as well as the
roots come out easily. I have learned if you can’t pull the roots out too then
you are making extra work for yourself. The remaining roots will regenerate new
weed growth very quickly. All the while you will be thinking… didn’t I just
weed that bed?
First in the natural then in the spiritual…(I Corinthians
15:46)
Isn’t it the same way in the spiritual realm? The Rain of
Revelation comes to us from the Scriptures about a root of bitterness. The rain
could have come during our time alone with God, a penetrating sermon, or a
close friend’s counsel. We know that
something has to be done about our attitudes and actions. We have tried just
forgetting about it or telling ourselves it really doesn’t matter anyway.
However, trying to pull away the despised memory without getting to the hidden
root cause means we will have to deal with the whole ugly situation when the
hurt surfaces again.
Paul mentions the ‘root of bitterness’ in Hebrews.
See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God;
that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble,
and by it many may become defiled;
(Hebrew 12:15)
How does bitterness start? By someone taking an offense and
then choosing not to forgive. At times genuine wrongs are done to us and then
we have to deal with the consequences. Other times, an incident is just a
misunderstanding but we choose to believe that the action was intentional. Either case, if we continue to rehearse and nurse the wrong
(while seeking others approval), then the root of bitterness will develop and
spread. Kind of like a fisherman’s exaggerated stories about the size of his
catch. If left unchecked, bitterness will manifest in every area of your life
including our health. If we act forgiving on the outside without a change of
heart on the inside, then the roots will remain and the bitterness will surface
again. The longer the roots remain the deeper they will grow and the harder
they will be to pull.
However, when we choose to begin the process of forgiving no
matter what the circumstances are or how long ago it happened, then we free ourselves as well as the others involved. When we forgive, we do not
leave any “heart” ground for the bitter roots to form and a new grace-filled
relationship can begin again.
Great illustration. Best to get to the root and get all that bitterness up and out. Very good words and instruction, my friend. I think tonight, I will share this with my family. It's time for His beauty to bloom again.
ReplyDeleteAMEN! Blessings on you and your family!
DeleteGood stuff, Mary Jane! Thanks for sharing your life lessons with your friends. Love you!
ReplyDeleteThanks Cathy. When I was out pulling the weeds, one of my elderly neighbors stopped by and asked me what I was doing. I said I was doing research on a new blog piece....lol!
DeleteSpot on, as usual.
ReplyDeletePs: I left a blog award for you over on my blog!
Thanks so much girlfriend!
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